Not all escorts have the pleasure of working on their own terms. Many are listed under and work for escort agencies that manage various aspects of their work such as marketing, assignment, pay and tip management. As a potential user of escort services, we thought we’d give you some insight into what to expect when using escort agencies in contrast to dealing with independent escorts.
Generally, using an escort agency is a safer and smoother process than using an independent escort. There are numerous scam attempts listed as independent escorts online and there are many warning signs you must look out for if you choose to go that route. Listings for escort agencies are not necessarily always safe, however, there are known escort agencies which you can use. Using these allows the freedom of dealing with various escorts without worrying if each is legitimate as they are all employees of the same agency.
When escorts work independently, all the funds collected are for them. They keep all their profits and so the only cost you incur is reflective of their services. When an escort agency is brought into the mix, not only is there a consideration for the cost of the escort service, but there is also the consideration for the agency as it is a business and must also make a profit. As such there is usually the inclusion of an “agency fee” within your bill.
Escort agencies are as devoted to a good customer experience as independent escorts are. One advantage that escort agencies has is the ability to customize the experience to your liking. When dealing with an independent escort, that person has a single personality (though she may roleplay others) and a single look. Even though you may like the look or even the personality, maybe there are things you would change. Escort agencies can help you in this department. As they usually boast an array of escorts, by communicating with you and understanding your needs, they can recommend the most optimal escort to meet them. All this is achieved through a simple conversation as opposed to your having to attempt to (and possibly fail at) finding such an escort yourself.
This is where using an independent escort would put you at an advantage. Independent escorts communicate with you for some time prior to the appointment. It allows for ice breaking so the eventual meeting is a smooth one. Escort agencies on the other hand play a middle man role and manage communication for their escorts. Therefore, they pretty much send an escort depending on what you describe. When the escort arrives is when the initial meeting occurs, so you must hope that the personalities don’t clash and that the escort is a pleasure to deal with.
Using an escort agency has its advantages over independent escorts but there are also disadvantages. You will need to decide what matters most to you before deciding to go the agency or independent route.
You may wish to make use of escort services for events, for recovering from breakups, for sexual pleasure, or any reason which you heart may desire. Escort services don’t come cheap and it is a no brainer that you deserve the best possible experience for the kind of money you’ll be dropping on the service. However, it is possible that you may prevent that from happening with some of your own actions. As we would hate for you to feel like your hard-earned cash has been wasted, here are some tips whenever you use escorts.
Do your research
This does not only apply to escorts but should also be applied in life. If you are going to do anything in life, gather as much facts as is possible. Researching your escort is an important step in maintaining your peace of mind. This process allows you to both verify and understand your escort prior to meeting. You can get an idea of your escort’s offerings, of experiences of other clients and even of your escort’s existence as some listings are fake and have malicious intent. Searching your escort’s image in a search engine and verifying her contact details online are recommended prior to making contact.
Stick to the script
Escorts are usually very clear in their offerings because of the disaster of unrealistic expectations. Some of the offerings may not be very clear as escorts tend to use their own lingo in offering listings. It is recommended that you do research on these terms, and ensure you communicate with the escort and agree on the extent to which you will be taking your activities. Once this is done, do not try to negotiate and convince your escort to do things that were not agreed to and are not offered.
Tip your escort
Tipping is not mandatory; however, it shows an appreciation for the escort and the proficiency of her services. Of course, we don’t expect you to tip someone who did not perform well, but not tipping the ones who do will make them wonder if they did. Also, if you have intentions of doing repeat business, escorts usually decide if they will oblige based on previous experience. Tipping is one way of ensuring that you’re a shoe in for another meeting.
Adopt the mindset that you would like to have a mutually pleasant evening with your escort. Once you have done that, treat your escort accordingly. Speak clearly, maintain eye contact, use proper body language, speak respectful, treat the escort as an equal and have genuine fun. Once your escort can ascertain an air of respect for you, he/she will take the duty of pleasing you much more seriously. Remember, escorts are people too. Respecting time is another aspect of this and this can break the date before it even begins leaving you with an experience that is less than the best. Remember escorts’ time is their bread and butter and wasting it by cancelling last minute or being late can deprive the escort of income.
If you were to try to locate an escort today, you would have no trouble as there seems to be a never-ending supply advertised on various media. It’s highly unlikely that their dreams in their younger days or their aspirations included becoming an escort. While we are aware that there are male escorts, today is all about the women as we review the reasons why women become escorts.
Funding is usually at the center of the reasons for becoming an escort regardless of the purpose of the funding. One common reason women become escorts is to generate capital to start a business. They may have a lucrative business idea that will require funds that they do not have access to. They may not be able to access loans or may not want to go that route for reasons such as interest. Whatever the case, as escort services are known to generate large sums quickly (assuming there is a steady flow of work), women may elect to go that route.
There are a multitude of reasons women may struggle with day to day expenses. These can range from unemployment, to being a college student and simply not having the time or qualifications yet to make an acceptable level of income. College students are known for becoming part time escorts to offset their expenses. To ease the financial burden, many of these women get into escort work and some even stay in it for years afterwards.
There are many cases where a household is sustained by the combined efforts of a common-law or married couple. There are also cases where the household is sustained by the male only though there is a common-law or marital relationship. In either case, when separations or divorces take place, they immediately place women in a disadvantageous position. Becoming an escort is a simple process and can start generating a good income in a short period which can offset the deficit that was created because of the separation.
There is no beating the flexibility of working for yourself. Having the freedom to set your schedule and do business with only the clients you choose is not only empowering, but it also creates a level of comfort and reduces stress associated with work. This also allows escorts the time and freedom to engage in activities they choose, spend more time with family, etc. The ability to work without a “boss” is one of the reasons women become escorts. Note that this does not apply to every escort as many women enlist under escort agencies.
Ease of the trade
As sad as it is to say, there are many women who don’t wish to learn anything that is remotely challenging. This makes escort work appealing because there is no defined skill barrier that is set and so starting is as easy as advertising and being ready to respond. Unfortunately, many of them learn the hard way that a job that demands the pleasing of different personalities in different ways can be physically and emotionally taxing.